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The Devastating Cost of People Pleasing & How to Stop
LIMITED TIME REPLAY ACCESS
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by Zahra AljabriÂ
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 REPLAY ACCESS WILL END ON NOVEMBER 24th
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This Has Been Your Liberation: The 3-Day People Pleasing Breakthrough
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This program is the beginning and the foundation of letting go of people pleasing—but let's be honest: you've been operating this way for decades.
It feels familiar, safe, and like the "right" way for you to be. Over the next three days, we're going to dismantle that lie and give you the tools to break free. But here's what you need to know upfront: this is the start, not the finish line.
Real transformation requires practice—weeks and months of choosing differently, staying grounded when the guilt comes, and honoring yourself even when others are disappointed. That's why I typically work with my clients for 12 months on this exact journey, because lasting change needs support, accountability, and guidance as you navigate the inevitable pushback.
During these three days, you learned:Â
- how people pleasing has controlled your life,
- help you reconnect to who you really are
- and prepare you for the resistance you'll face
Now you have to opportunity to work with me for a full year to make this transformation permanent. This is your invitation to stop living for everyone else's approval and start living the expansive, authentic life Allah created you for.
Are you ready? Bismillah!
You know what to do- lets get you to do it!Â
The gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it isn't a knowledge problem—it's a conditioning problem.
You already know you should set boundaries, prioritize yourself, speak up, and stop over-functioning, but decades of habits, patterns, and deep-rooted conditioning keep you stuck in the same cycles despite your best intentions.
You know what healthy looks like, but when the moment comes—when your mom guilt trips you, when your spouse or person you're talking to gets defensive, when saying no feels unbearable—your nervous system takes over and you default back to people pleasing because that's what feels safe, even though it's killing you.
This is where coaching becomes essential: it's not about giving you more information or another framework to understand; it's about having someone walk with you through the actual doing, helping you identify the specific triggers that pull you back, rewire the automatic responses that have been running your life, and practice new behaviors in real time with support and accountability.
Coaching bridges the gap between intellectual understanding and embodied change because transformation doesn't happen through insight alone—it happens through repeated practice, compassionate confrontation of your patterns, and having someone hold you steady when every instinct is screaming at you to cave, until the new way of being becomes your new normal and you're finally living what you've always known you deserved.
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In your year long journey you'll become a new version of yourself by:
- Let go of people pleasing and any other way you are self sabotage
- Identify and release hidden resistance
- Return to your Firtra Fierceness - authentic purpose what Allah placed in you
- Master the art of receivingÂ
- Deal with others with kindness
- Improve your family, career and love life
- Personalize weekly guidance for one year
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You'll have every resource to support you to shift:
- 3 month curriculum to shift your mindset and heartset
- One year weekly group coaching with both Zahra and her husband, JamesÂ
- 5x 1:1 sessions
- 12 guided meditations
- Guided Workbook
- Access all Practical Muslim programs as needed
- Private Telegram community
Why I created Limitless Life
For nearly a decade, I've coached hundreds of Muslims through major life transformations—marriage, career pivots, spiritual breakthroughs.
And I've realized:Â People pleasing is the root issue underneath almost everything.Â
The burnout. The stalled goals. The empty worship. The unfulfilling relationships.
It's all connected.
This realization me create Limitless Life, a comprehensive year-long coaching program designed to guide you through the deep, sustained work of breaking free from people pleasing and stepping into divine alignment.
IÂ know that while workshops and short courses create awareness, real transformation requires time, support, and accountability as you navigate the inevitable pushback, guilt, and discomfort that comes with choosing yourself.
Limitless Life provides 12 months of one-on-one guidance to help you heal you relationship with Allah, build unshakable confidence, set boundaries without guilt, pursue their goals with courage, create authentic love, and finally live as Allah-pleasers instead of people-pleasers.
It's not just about fixing surface behaviors—it's about spiritual rewiring at the deepest level, so that every area of life—faith, love, career, family, friendships—transforms from performance into authenticity, and from exhaustion into the expansive, fulfilling life they were always meant to live.
I'm honored to do this work with you.
Limitless Life is for you if...
- You sincerely want to understand why you are in your current situation and how YOU contributed to being here
- You want to feel more connected with Allah, more present in your prayers, and feel Allah's presence in your professional lifeÂ
- You are looking for an Islamic way to handle life's challenges with grace and connection with Allah
- You want to exit the hustle culture and lean on Allah as your partner while doing your part
- You want to be with a group of like-minded ambitious believers
- You want a simple system to no-longer have to "balance" between deen and dunya and instead make every moment an "act of worship"
- You want to live in integrity with your Islamic beliefs where you think, say, and do the same thing no matter the circumstance
This is NOT for you if...
- You are looking for just a course
- You are looking for Islamic lectures
- You are looking for an excuse to hide behind 'spiritual work' and not address issues
- You are only looking for business or love tricks and tactics or career advice
- You are looking for system where you don't have to do the work (aka "done for you")