YOUR COMPETITIVE EDGE

 

ELITE PERFORMANCE 360

 

Accomplished Muslims enhance their career and love life

  with James Faghmous Ph.D.

YOUR COMPETITIVE EDGE

 

ELITE PERFORMANCE 360

 

Accomplished Muslims enhance their career and love life

with James Faghmous, Ph.D

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Career. Marriage. Family.  The link that gives you leverage.

 

You're a professional a doctor, lawyer, engineer, or executive whose built a reputation, established your expertise and cultivated a full life.

The skills that help you build a marriage are the same ones that make you a better leader, negotiator and conflict resolver. This program treats them as one system.

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Career

Negotiate better, say no cleanly and stay steady under pressure, with colleagues, partners and clients.

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Marriage

Build the rapport and comfort that let you evaluate fit, and be understood by the woman you choose.

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Family

Resolve conflict without attack or blame, so your home becomes a source of strength rather than strain.

 

Implement the system that gives you leverage.

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For Marriage

When you talk with a woman for marriage, you're answering two questions:

Do you enjoy her company?
Would she be a good fit for your life and goals?

Even if you get clear answers, it isn't enough. She has to feel the same about you. Many successful, high-achieving Muslim men never get enough conversations with a woman to build the rapport, comfort and connection that let them evaluate fit at all.

Does this sound like you?
  • You're talking to women for marriage, and things break down within 2 to 4 conversations.
  • You feel misunderstood, even when your intentions are good.
  • You run teams, cases or patients with confidence, but this part feels like guesswork.

These are the skills I teach that let you talk with any woman you want, and decide how to move forward. 

Inception framing

Present your concerns from her perspective, so she hears them as care instead of criticism.

Distress tolerance

Respond to her distress, or your own, without attack or blame. Regulate your emotions, don't take things personally and resolve the issue.

Courageous safety

Learn to make people feel safe by sharing what your experiencing and feeling internally. It helps you collaborate, and you're more likely to get what you want.

Bonus - Tactical micro habits

Small shifts in behavior that build connection, one conversation at a time.

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AS SEEN IN

Elite Performance 360 Gives You

Respect, Influence & Trust

When you are the man they admire and respect, you lead your career, wife and family with ease. This is the framework of power Islam gave us, learn how to practice it. 

1

Clarity

Identify exactly where your influence stops and your leverage could start. Explore what fears, hesitations and concerns are preventing you from harnessing your power.

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Confidence

Learn to turn goodwill, sponsorship, and reputation into concrete asks- promotions, budget, headcount, policy, relationships.

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Courage

Practice maneuvering through the exact conversations- the ask, the pushback, the walk-away building your faith to make power moves.

This is built for a specific type of Muslim

  • You've made partner, VP, or the equivalent, and it changed less than you expected
  • You've been the "safe" pick to overlook when things got tight
  • You've swallowed comments and moments you shouldn't have had to
  • You're done waiting for merit to be noticed on its own
  • You want to advocate for your team, your project, or yourself — and actually win

 

This isn't for you if:

  • You're early-career and still building your first base of credibility
  • You're looking for validation rather than a strategy
  • You want someone else to have the conversation for you
  • You're not willing to name what's actually happened to you, plainly
Salams, I'm James

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 I am honored to support you. Let's get started! 

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